Scratch Me If You Can

The practice for Scratch Me If You Can is all about asking for what you want. We  love this one, because everyone can always use more practice in this department!

Receiver: Be specific and descriptive about asking for what you want. For            example, "I want you to massage my head in little circles." Or "I want you to zig zag across my back! Do it again, do it backwards! Pause, and push down harder." Or my personal favorite, "Do it while you whisper in my ear"

Giver: Your job is pretty simple here...just enthusiastically give the receiver exactly what they ask for. For bonus points, thank them for their instruction and for telling you what they like.

Happy scratching, kittens!


Eros & Trisha

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